I generally concur with the previous comments, but will add a few personal modifications. Coach is fine for one night if you're on a budget, but you probably won't sleep much, especially the first time. (It gets easier the more you do it.) A sleeper is definitely better, though. For trips covering more than one night, definitely get a sleeper.
Sleeper prices for a standard bedroom are pretty good these days, but book early as they often sell out.
Coach seats offer gobs of legroom, and there is plenty of space to recline without putting your seat back in someone's face. You get a leg rest, a foot rest, a fold down tray table and a small airline style pillow.
Food in a sleeper isn't exactly "free." It is included in the sleeper price. It is worth about $30-$40 per day per person. So figure that in when calculating the price difference for sleepers and coach. If you ride coach and take at least some of your meals from the pre-packaged stuff in the lounge cafe, you can save some money, too, but it isn't nearly as good as the freshly cooked meals in the diner.
Following the KISS principle, I suggest you leave from the station nearest your home.
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-Mr. Toy
The Del Monte Club Car
[This message has been edited by Mr. Toy (edited 10-20-2003).]